Employment as a parent/carer

While many people work to earn money, work can also give you a sense of purpose, improve your mental health, and help you feel connected to others. 

It’s okay, and beneficial, to work for reasons like personal growth, connection, and fulfilment — not just for financial reasons. 

If you are a carer, it’s important to recognise that your caring role will affect how you work. Finding a balance between your job and your caring responsibilities can make things easier to manage. 

 

Employment as a parent/carer
Acknowledging that caring responsibilities will influence how you work is an important first step.

In recent years, there have been positive changes in the workplace that can help people who are balancing work and caring. These are outlined below, along with some useful tips to consider. 

You can also listen to CFI member and parent Julie Bernard share her experience of managing a career while being a carer in the Carewell Conversations series. You can download her article at the bottom of this page. 

Take a Portfolio Career/Life Approach
  1. Consider the different types of work that you have experience in, including being a carer
  2. Work can serve different purposes (income vs. non-income)
  3. Manage career over time; avoid hasty, binary decisions
  4. Own your time and negotiate at work
  5. Plan using 168 hours/week, not just 24 hours/day
  6. Manage energy as well as time; include energizing activities
  7. Be creative with flexible work models; negotiate beyond standard options

 

Seek Support
  1. Use available leave without guilt 

  2. Share your story at work if comfortable to build understanding 

  3. Work with supportive managers; escalate or move if needed 

  4. Explore structured supports: 

    1. Caring Employers Programme (Family Carers Ireland) 
    2. Workplace support groups for carers 

    3. Peer support (informal chats) 

  5. Monitor pension impacts of reduced hours or leave; seek financial advice 

  6. Negotiate childcare and working hours with partner proactively 

  7. Recognize emotional challenges of genetic illness and pregnancy; seek support 

  8. Address mental health challenges; use workplace or CFI counselling 

 

Recognize What Carers Bring to the Workplace
  • Enhanced planning and time management
  • Growth mindset from continuous learning
  • Empathy for colleagues
  • Big-picture perspective and balance
  • Self-reflection and emotional awareness
  • Advocacy skills
  • Appreciation for research and data analysis

 

Combining work and caring for a child with Cystic Fibrosis - Julie Bernard Download